First time I feel in love.

[youwontcatchme]

Are you telling me to "jerk off" or that I am a "jerk off"?

What does jerking off have to do with falling in love anyways?

[youwontcatchme]

In that case what's the difference between having a crush on someone and being in love?

[cannabis campbell]

I will get over her but in a way i don't want to.

Yes,I believe i would die for her and do a lot of things to make her happy.

The fact that i don't know her so well might explain the reason for which i'm in love with her.I've never seen any negative aspects of her personality which makes me think she is perfect.
She responded to my Emails which makes me feel a little better.
I've had a lot of problems in my life lately and i think that when i was with her i forgot all about them,Now there all hitting me all at once and i think that's part of w<hat makes me in love with this girl.

I've promised myself to go and see her when I'm 18.

Well by that time i doubt you still still even remember her or be bothered to see her but if you keep her in your thoughts for 4 years until your 18 then it might be love..

[Jim M]

you're only 14 dude, forget about love and go have as much sex with as many girls as you can...

"love is suicide" - billy corgan

[Pipe Dreams]

Hey dude. Youre 14. You aint in love man, believe me. Especially after 3 or 4 days.

[youwontcatchme]

What's this idea that if you're 14 you can't fall in love?

Who said you had to be totaly developped to have strong feelings for somebody?

[thcbongman]

Look bro, I'm in a similar situation like you. I had a crush on an intern, a beautiful petite French girl. For the longest time I didn't know she felt the same for me. I asked her out. These last few days has been heaven for me, we are very much in love.

However, you gotta look at the reality. You are continents away. The best you can do is remain in contact with her. If it works out, it works out. But don't be disappointed if it doesn't. Time does some strange things. Memories start to fade.

I'm hoping for the best. I'm going to visit her at some point, but if she ends up finding someone else, I'm not going to be upset. She's the coolest chick I ever met. She saw things in me I never saw in myself. Just use the experience, and just live man.

That's all you can do.

[youwontcatchme]

Well the girl allready in holland so...

When I'm 18...

[natureisawesome]

When I was younger in middle school right around your age, I had a huge crush on this girl , and we both liked the same band. She was a jerk, but I couldn't stop obsessing over her for several years.

Whether it's that kind of crush or something smaller, it will defenitely pass. That fact that she was foreigner probably was very diferent and mysterious and attractive to you, just like all foreign women are to men.

Here is my personal advice. Childhood and youth are vanity. If you get involved with women now, you'll be even worse than if you wait. Girls your age are not ready for a man and you're too young to do anything long term. Not only that, but you have to really be patient and look long and hard to find someone with the kind of integrity that's right to be around. So do you just want a shallow short term relationship, or an immature little girl to break your heart and not take you seriously?

Now is the time for you to seek your purpose in life, to examine your morals, to search out for God if he exists, to build integrity and maturity and keep quiet stay out of trouble and study. Maybe you think that now is the time for you to enjoy life because you're young, but it's really the opposite. Your enjoyment, fulfillment, success in life depends upon the foundation you build now when you're young. That includes everything, not just education to get a good job.

As a last note, I believe that God is the best friend you could ever have, and you don't have to wait. And you don't have to go to Holland to be with him. If God exists, nothing is more important to seek out than him.

And don't smoke too much weed if any because your growing kid. Let your mind and body grow. It's no joke.

That's my personal advice.

[natureisawesome]

I was just re-reading your orginal post and It dawned on me from what you said that you had this realization of love as you call it, when you were DRUNK .

I can only imagine how strong feelings your having, or have had, but please don't scar yourself. Avoid the mental anguish and let it go.