First time I feel in love.

[youwontcatchme]

During the holidays I went to a campsite right by St malo,in France.

The first night I got there I decided that id go out and attempt to meet some people so that I wouldn't bore my brains out.
I met a 14yr old dutch kid who introduced me to his sister who is 18, I asked her for a cigarette and she asked me my age(14).

The next day i hanged out with her and got to meet her and here little brother a little brother a little better.
The third night we hanged out till 3 in the morning and i started to really like her but we weren't going out our anything.She was extremely pretty and kind,the sad thing was she was leaving in ONE DAY.

the last night I got a lot of beer and got very drunk and realised that i was in love with her i attempted to kiss her and got refused.

Basically i'm highly in love with someone who lives in holland and doesn't love me.It's been 3 dayq since she left and i still feel like shit! I think about her all the time and promised myself to go and see her once i'm 18 .

My question is basically:For how long will i feel like shit?
i've never felt this way in my life.

youwontcatchme Reviewed by youwontcatchme on 07-22-2007. First time I feel in love. During the holidays I went to a campsite right by St malo,in France. The first night I got there I decided that id go out and attempt to meet some people so that I wouldn't bore my brains out. I met a 14yr old dutch kid who introduced me to his sister who is 18, I asked her for a cigarette and she asked me my age(14). The next day i hanged out with her and got to meet her and here little brother a little brother a little better. The third night we hanged out till 3 in the morning and i Rating: 5

[Ganja Sam]

dammy dam, red light district, 50 euros, suck and fuck

For how long will i feel like shit? for the ammount of time it takes u to get to Dammy Dam (45mins from uk woot)

:hippy:

[Mike23artist]

itll pass smoke some weed

[cannabis campbell]

How can you be sure its love man? I believe love is something that grows and you have to know someone (inside out, or at least pretty well) before you can say that you have those kind of feelings for a person.

What your feeling is most likely infatuation, lust.. you are attracted to her because of her looks and good personality, but would you do anything for her? would you kill for her? would you die for her? would you do absolutely anything in the world to make her happy? Ask yourself those questions because I dont know the answer but i doubt it.

Well when i was young around your age i've been in this position before where i seriously thought i was in love after having a little holiday romance, because at that time in your life its a good memory and really special to you, but trust me you will get over it in a few months and when you get older you will look back on this and realise it was just puppy love.

When you get older you'll realise that in love, the "feeling of shit" you have now is NOTHING, it can be a million times worse, but on the flip side the good feelings will be better aswell.

Just dont worry about it mate you will get over her ok.

[Mike23artist]

its probably lust

[1alwaysSCORES]

2 weeks- 5 months

your case is probably less than a month

[youwontcatchme]

How can you be sure its love man? I believe love is something that grows and you have to know someone (inside out, or at least pretty well) before you can say that you have those kind of feelings for a person.

What your feeling is most likely infatuation, lust.. you are attracted to her because of her looks and good personality, but would you do anything for her? would you kill for her? would you die for her? would you do absolutely anything in the world to make her happy? Ask yourself those questions because I dont know the answer but i doubt it.

Well when i was young around your age i've been in this position before where i seriously thought i was in love after having a little holiday romance, because at that time in your life its a good memory and really special to you, but trust me you will get over it in a few months and when you get older you will look back on this and realise it was just puppy love.

When you get older you'll realise that in love, the "feeling of shit" you have now is NOTHING, it can be a million times worse, but on the flip side the good feelings will be better aswell.

Just dont worry about it mate you will get over her ok.

I can't be sure it's love,but nobody can.

I don't believe you have to know somebody inside out to love them.Love is not something you ask for it just happens,you have no choice.
I can't stop thinking about her constantly,I try to distract my brain with other things but it doesn't work.

The first day she left i cried all day and was unable to have any fun whatsoever and felt like throwing up at times.

I agree with you,Love can probably be a lot more intense then in this case but that doesn't hide the fact that it's love.

The feelings I have for her are very strong,I keep imagining I have kids with her and have a family with her...
Am I abnormal?

I don't want to cure this by smoking weed,I beleive i should be able to get through my problems without weed and use weed as a tool to have fun.:rastasmoke:

If i where to see her in 4 years, is there a bigger chance that i fall in love with her(again) than if i had never met her?

Thanks for the responses everybody they honestly help

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I fell in love in Jamaica, but I got over it as soon as I got home. It was a fling, we clicked, we fooled around and left that shit in Jamaica man. I dunno, you're very young and you hardly know the girl. I'm sorry, I know it sucks..and I feel ya, but don't limit yourself to just that one random girl yanno? <3

[cannabis campbell]

When it is love you will "know" its hard to describe but you will just be so sure of it.

Fair enough if you dont believe that you have to know someone that well to love them which is probably true, but answer my question, would you die for her? would you do anything to make that girl happy?

Ok so your saying that you dont really have to know someone to love them which is true but.. what do you really know about her you haven't known her that long you might no have much in common, do you know when her birthday is her favourite foods and things like that or what type of guys she goes for, what turns her on/off or anything about her past, i mean you dont really know much about her or her personality because you didnt know her that long and that what loves all about man i think the chances are you just fell for her because of her looks and you were just infatuated by her.

[thcbongman]

Man, you just have the jollies for a hot ass dutch chick. I can't blame you for one bit for being overdramatic, they're so beautiful. Plus when their tongues roll when they speak too fast