Actually (interestingly) alcohol seems to only be addivctive to certain individuals....genetics come in here. In my mind there is a difference between a "problem drinker" and an alcoholic.

Off the top of my head....I'd say yes, he's got a problem with drinking. It's interfering with his life. He can't stop even though the consequences get him in trouble. I have no doubt he's told himself before to stop but can't seem to do it. So does lucky G (once I drink one I can't stop...) that is CLASSIC alcoholism and I was always exactly the same way. The difference between me and Lucky is that he stopped completely on his own. I could not. And that he says he is not an alcoholic. I say that I certainly am.

True alcoholics are not normal drinkers but normal drinkers can be "problem drinkers." As an recovering alkie I dont have the slightest interest in the "slight buzz" of one beer....I want the whole tamale or why bother? I know "normal drinkers" don't think this way.

Unlike other "physically addictive" drugs some people can drink alcohol for years daily and simply stop. Others...(like me) take one sip and the body gets into gear....it's a done deal.