Quote Originally Posted by thcbongman
I don't think it was truly opposite. If my friends and family didn't care about me so much, they sure wouldn't be around, I did nothing to encourage them to love me. I would be a loner otherwise, I don't talk to strangers on a normal basis.

But I think you are right about me not standing up for myself. I remember you pointed it out to me once already in the past! Now that I think about it, I think the common theme was an instance of lack of respect.
by oppposite i simply meant the picture i was painting was you were alone, neglected, and of course heavy stress continually building up until you blew up over bigger things....