Oh it is possible.
I'm 20 and my b/f is 23. We live together, for the most part..but we're not always both around. I am full time in university, have a part time job...he works full time...we both come home and the first thing we do is roll a big L(which I roll cuz I'm home first) and we talk about the day, whats funny, whats irritating, etc. Then I make dinner, we eat, I clean..smoke more weed and either talk or watch something intriguing. Point is, we're both normal and hardworking...but both can smoke about an ounce in 4 days. We go together well
So chin up guys, it's possible, there are lots of hot ladies who love the herb, are not mooches, are independant, and very intelligent.