yeah man I know how you feel.. just last night I was talking to one of my exes.. who I have gone out with twice before now.. and like straight up.. I told her how I felt.. sincere and with emotion.. I made myself vulnerable to her.. she's always been that type to make me feel comfortable around her.. so I just broke free and told her how it is.. and when I did.. she broke down and told me how much she misses me and how she always thinks of me.. and now we're planning on seeing eachother sometime.. I just cant wait to hold her.. ya know? Im sorry if Im getting to dumb here but your post really got to me man. I know how you feel.. like when you dig a chick so much.. it interferes with how you think. when I think of this girl I get heavy feelings in my chest and anxious... I want her.. it's almost as if I urgently need her.. something tells me to go all out.. it's been over a year since the last time I saw her besides myspace.. but definately man.. tell her how you feel.. It may be a bit harder cus she has a boyfriend and you dont wanna seem clingy.. I'd say my situation is easier because I feel comfortable with my ex.. but she also knows I'm not good at saying my true feelings.. cus I feel so vulnerable and when I say how I feel about someone.. I mean it.. but it feels like Im opening myself up to get real hurt.. and if that happens.. again, Idk what I would do man.. Woman.. they dont know what they do to us guys, really we're more then muscle and ego.. when a girls got us... she's got us, it's crazy. Hope everything turns out for the better man. take care