semi dumped man? you didnt even say you two were goin out, and shit man if she has a kid you want that repsonsibility if things get serious, if the father was a deadbeat youd probably have to make up for him not paying child suppor, and what if this dude got pissed that you were baning his ex chick(no reason he should but shit happens) and he kicks your ass, haha those are pretty much worse case scenarios, but good luck with the chick man, just get to be really good friends with her, but dont be a freind for too long make your move quick because once you in the friendship circle for a while youll always be in it trust me i know that feelin and situation all to well