I'm no expert, but to me there's no official relationship until sex happens. Before that, she's just... some chick you know, regardless of what you would like to believe, especially since you just met her.

Detach yourself, look at this from a different angle. Don't let your desire to get laid/in a relationship ASAP make you stupid, as so often is the case. What's the hurry? Do you honestly think because you waited a year and a half, and she stumbled along (with her baggage), that makes her miss right? Hardly. Plus, she smells your desperation. It reeks.

ps - this does probably have a more appropriate forum.

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