I'm no expert, but to me there's no official relationship until sex happens. Before that, she's just... some chick you know, regardless of what you would like to believe, especially since you just met her.

Detach yourself, look at this from a different angle. Don't let your desire to get laid/in a relationship ASAP make you stupid, as so often is the case. What's the hurry? Do you honestly think because you waited a year and a half, and she stumbled along (with her baggage), that makes her miss right? Hardly. Plus, she smells your desperation. It reeks.

ps - this does probably have a more appropriate forum.

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chaliceburn Reviewed by chaliceburn on . I JUST GOT SEMI-DUMPED:( opionions please asap I met this girl a few weeks ago and weve talked on the phone yadadada a few times she has a 4 year old son shes 22 im 24 and we both said we find eacother cute and so i thought maybe we could date i brought her flowers to her work last night and she hugged me and shit then tonight i was talking to her on im and she said she aint looking for a relationship now and just wants to be friends:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(so i said i wouldnt rush her and we could start out as friends and she said ok and i Rating: 5