Quote Originally Posted by Mike23artist
I met this girl a few weeks ago and weve talked on the phone yadadada a few times she has a 4 year old son shes 22 im 24 and we both said we find eacother cute and so i thought maybe we could date i brought her flowers to her work last night and she hugged me and shit then tonight i was talking to her on im and she said she aint looking for a relationship now and just wants to be friendsso i said i wouldnt rush her and we could start out as friends and she said ok and i agreed so i dunno know what to do ive been single for a year and over a half and shes the first girl ive asked out in a long ass time and i like this girl im stuck dammitso shes supposed to call me tommorrow and "talk' so what should i tell her ladys????please i need help
This probably belongs in the Sexuality and Relationships forum.

I think she's interested. Just go along with it, she's sounds like a very nice woman.

You have to realize that kid is important to her, and the father may be around, so she's being careful.

When I was single, dating women with kids, or ones that wanted them, never worked out for me.