simple enough.... just ask her if she's wanting a relationship in the future possibly you.... or if she's not really looking for any relationship anytime soon...

can't push her, if she don't want one, you can't make her want one.... and you really don't... if you just pushed her into a relationship it'd be pure shit and hell....

give it time.... if you like this girl as much as you say you do, you'll have no problem waiting and taking it slow.... get to know each other a bit more first... start with dinners... going out as just friends... don't push relationship status or anything, just basicly go out as you'd take one of your guy friends out...