Hi hon, and welcome! :dance: It has always seemed a little silly to me to judge a person on just one aspect ( gay, "race", religion, pot, gender, etc.) of who they are. People are SO much more than who they go to bed with! I don't claim to understand being gay, but I do understand love- been married to the same guy for about 40 years. Hope you find your right person, too. - Granny:hippy: