See I understand what your saying about your parents caring and not wanting you to get in trouble but that is exactly what my mom is doing. You see I recently have gotten a job, brought my grades up, and held a steady relationship with my girlie [ 9 months almost ] whitch is a huge turn around from this summer whitch was drinking, indecent exposure, B & E, and ultimatley going to jail to top it off. So her allowing me to smoke is a way of allowing me to have a seperate life since I have earned. And yes it is a huge weight off my shoulders being able to smoke and chill instead of being all paranoid and looking over my shoulder constantly.