We're both 20. I've been at uni for a year, she's just started. Thanks for the replies, I feel better about the whole thing just writing it down (and having a toke). I feel things'll get better this year once we move into a house with some friends. We've been living in proximity for a while (halls) and both been stressed out recently about a lot of things (such as getting her into uni) so there have been lots of contributing factors to the tension we've had. Once we're both in the same student boat i'm sure she will feel comfortable.

I'm seeing her tomorrow anyway so will talk about it again. Thanks again for the help and concern.