Rastagirl, you buy them for yourself and not for what other people think right... But say you wore them out for the first time and some bloke or girl commented really negatively on them like they are ugly ... Honestly I don't think you would wear them again?

It's nature, its hard coded into us to attract the opposite sex, women and men, the only different is (straight) men only care what women would see them as being sexy in but women care what men and other women think hahaha you'se give yourselves such a hard time when it's not needed.