wow I just read all of this and after thinking about it I am noway the one who could give help advise but I dont under stand how someone could not want to give oral sex to their partner. After meeting and getting the introductions and intentions outa the way one of the first things I think about is "what does she taste like"? Mabey its the predator, or the beast in me...... I dont know, just sounds....imp: not good.