I don't know what to say. Only that pretty much the same thing happened to me. But she still gave me of blow jobs but she wouldn't let me eat pussy for three years before she died last year. I think other women do that sort of thing too. With us, communication was always a problem cause she was Korean and I never really found out what the problem was. Off the top of my head, it sounds like she should go talk to someone, but I don't know who.