Quote Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Nap, I have the same issue. I wonder if it si more common than we think?

As for the original question... two words... MUTUAL SATISFACTION :jointsmile:
I feel bad for my boyfriend because he doesnt understand it and thinks he's doing something wrong. I tried to explain it to him but I think in his mind when I say "its not you its me" he thinks I'm just being nice.