I think it's time for some folks to step back, roll a fattie, and let this one rest if it's starting to engender hard feelings. Poly, that response of yours above was uncharacteristiic-sounding.

I agree with my husband on this war. Not sure we could live together if we didn't. But I also know there are folks who feel just as strongly in the opposite direction. My fellow mod is one of them.

Can y'all agree to disagree with civility and not let this escalate any further?