That really sucks, one thing i suggest u said u have to clean up after u break the shit up..get like a altoids box or somthing and break it up in there..then there will be no cleanup. My mom knows I smoke, she just doesnt like me doing it in the house but i do anyway when theres a strech where shes not home or asleep, she caught me multiple times though..just yells somthing stinks! and im just like must be some bad insence..then she leaves me alone even though we both know she knows what im doing but i never admit it lol.