Quote Originally Posted by crudemood
I think you two definately need some time apart. Then during that time you can think about if you miss her or not, she can do the same thing and maybe not have sex this time.. I believe if two people really love each other they're willing to work things out and it will work out. As for second chances well, I usually do give those but after the second chance, I'm done.. I don't believe in making this kind of 'mistake' twice.
i just came out of a three year relationship, verbal abusive, very toxic for both of us. sometimes physical, just out of pure anger for each other. We had this love hate relationship, it wasn't always like this until i found out she WAS cheating on me for along time.... i tried to forgive and forget... but i just couldn't.. i was so guilty in my own ways of lying to her i just couldn't give it up... i said we need time apart and thats what were doing like a couple years if were ment to be with each other we will be together again...


I say you need to think about what you want, what you need. if you think theirs no other options. 7 times is way excessive. thats more then he just seduced me. thats a defiant willing partner. Remember you need to take care of your heart most of all, your not the one who fucked up, so dont blame yourself for her mistakes, she is pulling a game for you to forgive her.. But if you really think she deserves another chance then do it dude.. don't give up on true love.. its hard to find..