Quote Originally Posted by imitator
The key is experience, which is gained through trial and error. Everyone here can tell you what works for them, but they are not you, and what works for one may not work for another.

Not to imply anyone has given bad advice persay, just that you have to take whats being said and apply it to yourself and see how it would work.

Personally, I have a good deal of experience in social engineering, body language, and the like. I can read people pretty well. Even so, I myself always have a problem with taking the first leap. I know that she wants me to kiss her, I want to kiss her, but I enjoy that feeling you get just before you kiss for the first time enough that I sometimes delay longer then I should.

But seriously, all the enjoyment, the rush, and the pleasure after you have "done the deed", comes from what you do and how YOU do it. Enjoy it, and do what feels right to you. Doing what others tell you in place of what you feel is right at the time really removes some of joy, and also removes some of the experience you would gain from doing it by your feelings.

Like I said, no one here has given bad advice, but I guess my advice is not to take any advice here too literally, and use it as guidelines more then rules or specific things to follows. Let it give you an idea, and put your own spin on it from there.

And good luck my friend, heres a quote that about sums up my feelings on the entire matter
Gandalf, I think this is the post you should listen to the most.