Gandalf Ive only seen those three pictures you posted of yourself in the other thread, but from what Ive seen you have a head start because of one important reason: expressive eyes. Use them to your benefit. If you arent an expert at body language, spend hours in front of the mirror imagining different things and reacting realisticly. Notice the minor changes your eyes undergo depending on what you are feeling, and memorize what it looks like and what it feels like, so that you always know you are expressin exactly what you want to with your eyes. There is only one word you must remember when you are talking about reading eyes: SUBTLETY. Purposeful positioning of the eyes is always exaggerated and obvious and rather comical.. you dont want her to know.. you want it to be more of a subliminal and subconscious realization.

Now, with all that behind you, Ive found that the best way to kiss a girl in the exact situation you are envisioning is to spend a good amount of time that night talking to her and looking directly into her eyes. Look straight down into her soul, its quite easy, and let her look into yours. She will be able to tell what you are thinking, so if all thats going through your head is "I just want to kiss her!" instead of "I wanna fuck the shit out of her!" you will be soooo good to go. Personally, I love using my eyes to do most of the conversation, and most of the time the girl ends up kissing ME... but Ive had about 10 years of experience with that, so just enjoy yourself, and when the moment feels right(it will almost always be after a couple seconds of just staring into each others eyes without saying anything), lean towards her. If the time is right she will mirror you. Its not a bad idea to allow your eyelids to get heavier and heavier the closer you get to her, as if the closer you get the more of a desire you have to kiss her. Women dont want you to be all open-eyed while you make it, its kind of creepy, so if you begin closing your eyes she will know you dont just want to whisper something in her ear lol.

Another option you have, especially in a social situation where there are drinks present, is after a drink or two where you guys are loosened up, and the conversation is rollin along wonderfully, begin allowing the conversation to get mellow and romantic. Dont force it, just.. feel it in the right direction if that makes sense. If you are feelin confident that she wants to kiss you, look in her eyes, and just plain old kiss her! Ya gotta do something with your hands when ya do.. but you got a couple choices. You can very lightly place both of your hands as if you are cradling her head as you kiss her like youve seen in the movies, you can place a hand on the back of her head or neck and the other by her waiste, you can go Jimmy Stewart on her and grab her by the shoulders.. its really your choice, whatever feels natural. When you kiss her, you are expressing your feelings for her with your lips, so try to imagine how passionate would FEEL. Nothing rough, nothing jerky, no tongue on the first kiss obviously. Think smooth, slow and sensual. You cant just peck her, and you probably dont want the first kiss to be some long thing unless thats how it turns out. If you are choosing the "just go for it" road, make it more than brief, but short enough to leave her wanting, then pull back, still keeping your hands where they are and look her in the eyes. The way she looks at you will tell you everything you need to know. Her eyes will either tell you to do it again, dont do it again, or maybe she wont even let you stop. If the latter one happens, then you will know, and just roll with it! That means its successful you dont have to stop to see if she liked it!

I realize all of this seems over-instructional, but I kind of got the feeling thats what you were looking for. Maybe not so much for all the instruction, but to confirm what you may have been thinking to solidify your confidence.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out!