Quote Originally Posted by stinkyattic
My advice is join some sort of club like a cycling or sailing club. You're going to meet cool people of both sexes, make new friends, get invited to parties and events, and even get in shape. My experience doing this is that even if there are not cool eligible bachelors in the club itself, one of the members is gonna have some cool guy friends who you will eventually get introduced to. Plus the dating thing is obvious, you'll be doing whatever fun activity it is, and not have to worry about trying to make small talk.
Meet a guy in a bar, your chances are good that he is a player, spends too much time there, and possibly has a drinking problem.
Meet a guy through a club, you already know that he can commit to something, has a hobby, and enough expendable income and time to pursue it.
Awsome idea! I am not into sports much, but I would really like to sign up for a summer art class. I think that would be a good place to meet people who I know are into art like me, and I feel like it would be easier to talk to people in a relaxing class atmosphere more so than at a coffe shop or something. I just need to put myself out there more. It's not easy being in a new area with out my friends as a security net. (Even though they havent left yet, I have like a month with all of them, and I'm aklways in the city working now) Thanks!