As a guy, I'll admit to acting differently depending on where we meet. Meet me at the Jersey shore and I'm the type of guy looking to score. Meet me at a bookstore and I'm the type of guy that will strike up a conversation with a complete stranger. Meet me at the gym and I'll flirt with you in a light hearted fashion, then apologize. I guess with that said, places to meet decent guys are bookstores, gyms, upscale venues, museums, etc. Places NOT to go guy-hunting include the boardwalk, fast food places, in the woods, in the back of a van, and porno shops.