Quote Originally Posted by Nailhead
ohh boy...you just opened a whole new can of issues....lol

So did you have the kid? You really should not expect a guy to "make it more serious" just because you have a kid together. You can't force love, and being in a love-less relationship is far more physiological damaging for the kid than being separated and happy, (I'm a good example ). You can blame him all you want for "not doing the right thing" as they say, but really you have ultimate control over getting pregnant so if you are not in a committed relationship, (aka married), you shouldn't even think about having kids. I'm not just talking about abortion, I'm talking about birth control, USE IT FOR GOD'S SAKE!! Women have far more options when it comes to birth control than men do, all we have is a rubber that is one of the least effective forms of birth control out there.

Getting a therapist would be beneficial to you, but seriously you need Leykis 101. To many it is nothing more than some rich shock jock on the radio, but honestly he talks about issues like you are going through EVERYDAY and you could really learn a lot. I don't think the show is on any Canadian radio stations, last I remember the Canadian government deemed his show improper or something and kicked him off a station in Vancouver. But thanks to the internet, you can still listen while you are surfing around the net, (but of course if you are a college chick, you probably don't do that nearly as much as I haha)

Just listen, the show might piss you off at first because it's taken from a man's perspective, but it really is a show you should hear as often as you can.

Click this link below, and to listen online simply click on the Listen Live button up at the top right of the website:
BlowMeUpTom.com
Tom Leykis is on from 3pm-8pm, Monday-Friday, the rest of the time it'll be whatever other show is on 97.1 in Los Angeles.

Sorry to sound like an advertisement, but I wouldn't mention it if I didn't think it would help you, plus it's a funny show too, especially on Flash Fridays
I don't want to sound defensive butt...... we used a condum and I didnt feel it break ... he did though. He admitted to it. I was like wooaahhh im wet, o wait no, oh shit. he's like opps i knew it broke, that was so intense. And yeah i had an abortion, i payed for it myself, and went by myself to get it.
Also I'm not from canada, and I'm not a college student. ... im a young perfessional lol, I'm 18 but i live on my own and have a job.

And yeah I shouldn't have expected the relationship to get serious, but that was a realllyyyyyy hard thing for me to go through, especially alone.
I didnt tell any of my friends bc my reputation was shitty in highschool, and I didnt need abortion on my list of reasons to call me a whore.