Quote Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420
I have very mixed feelings on wheather or not cheating is okay. I feel like it is ok if there are no feelings involved with it, and that as long as at the end of the day you still go back to the person you are cheating on.
I always said that I would never cheat on someone because I thought that it meant you didn't have strong feelings for them, or you were lacking something in the realtionship.
But then this weekend I cheated. On friday my boyfriend dropped me off at a train station where I missed my train. Earlier that day my friend who I havent seen in ahwile called me n was like come down town. So since I already was I called n asked if I could sleep over. He said it was fine and met me there. I was upset because my bf never called to see if I was ok or anything, just a nice young girl in a train station in the city w. a large amount of homeless crack heads at 12 30 at night, really safe right? so we were just drinking and one thing led to another and we fucked.
I feel terrible but at the same time it was just one night where I got caught up in the moment.
Should I tell him? I have no feelings for this guy ... I'm really confused.

edit: I love that I can tell everyone on here, and not my friends. This site is so helpful, w. out it things would eat me alive.

sleepovers were always fun in high school. ahh, the memories.

and umm.. i really don't know what to tell you... cheating is wrong.
you are wasting his time, and he's wasting yours....
but i think high school, college "relationships" aren't really important anyway... it's really just expierementing.
I will make sure to let my partner know that I have a VERY strong sexual drive and that she should be ready for that.
yea, i'm not going to go look for another girl if she doesn't feel like having sex a couple of times but in general...you're with that person for a reason....you two should be "pleasing" each other...
if not, just live life single.....that's fine too

but as far as sex with someone at a house, drunk.....there's nothing wrong with that... it's freaking natural... as long as you don't make it a habit.


i can't wait to tap into my social and sexual skills again
until then imma just keep working out and getting ready....