Quote Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420
he really doesnt care for me like i need to be, he wants more of a friends with benifits thing ... aka a booty call ... when I wanted a more serious relationship. which never works out good for the person who wanted a real relationship.
Why do you want a serious relationship? You don't have much experience as it is, just go out and have fun, you have lots of time to have a serious relationship later on in life, what is the rush? You are only young once, don't waste it with a couple serious relationships!

I don't know you personally, but from what I can get you seem like a pretty co-dependent person, insecure of the thought of being single. You gotta shake that crap, maybe get some therapy? It really is not healthy to live a co-dependent life. That is how my sister is, she always had to have a boyfriend in her young years, she could never be single or just have casual relationships, I'm guessing years of soap operas put that crap into her head. Anyway, now she lives with a total loser and his retarded daughter. She stays because she needs to feel important, his retarded daughter takes a lot of work to take care of so that fills her void, but it is far from a healthy relationship since she works while her boyfriend sits at home playing World of Warcraft all day and doesn't do a damn thing.

My advice: Stay single until you can learn to live independently, that includes independent from your friends too. This doesn't mean being a loner, it just means being perfectly content and happy when you are alone. Once you learn to live independently, you will have a much better realization of what you want in a relationship, and you won't waste your time with someone that isn't right for you anyway.