Quote Originally Posted by imitator
Personally, I feel that people put too much emphasis on sex.

Its a physical act between two people. Its done for enjoyment, and in some cases procreation.

It isnt anything more until people start making it more.

If you had sex with him just to have sex and enjoy the act, then there shouldnt be a problem, at least I wouldnt have a problem.
That was the way I saw it until I put myself in his shoes. I would die if he cheated on me, it would make me feel like I'm not good enough. But at the same time I wouldn't let it upset me me because like you said no one can fill ones every needs. I act like it was just in the heat of the moment, but I am sort of lying to myself. I was upset with him, and I didn't do it to nessasarly get back at him, it was more that I needed something that someone else I thought could give to me, which just so happened to be sex that made me feel like he wasnt just in it for him. When me and my bf fuck its 100% about him, its nice to have love made to you, I feel like when he fucks me theres not emotions for him involved, like he just wants to bust one out... the guy I cheated on him with was an ex, and I know how he makes love, it makes me feel cared for. But it was my own damn fault because I was too immature to tell him that I dind't like the way he banged me. But its over so....