Quote Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
Hmm I guess since everybody else is, Ill throw my two cents in there seeing as how Im still awake at 6AM..

Coming from somebody that has been cheated on after 4 years of dedication by the person I knew I was going to marry.. Im against it. In fact, thats the only thing that I truly ask of any girlfriend: be faithful, because I sure as fuck will be. If I am going to be in a relationship it is because I seriously care for that person and either am in love with them, or want to fall in love with them. Otherwise it is a waste of time. If I just want some sex, I can go out and pick up any number of girls at any given time, but thats not what interests me personally.

I know Im the minority, but sex is meaningless to me unless I have a serious sense of emotional attachment with that other person. In fact, the only times Ive had sex with somebody I wasnt in love with, was my female friends aunt(I was more than just high and drunk.. its a long story, but I didnt really even come to until the sun was coming up and I realized I had been fucking this woman for 8 hours in the hot tub), and the threesomes I had with my ex and her best friend.

If Im dating somebody, and I have such a small amount of respect for them that I am harboring thoughts of cheating on them, then I obviously dont love them anymore and I would need to break up with them anyways. I would want that same amount of decency. My ex girlfriend has sentenced another man to death sometime in the very distant future because shes a dirty whore of a cheater. I dunno, its not just the ultimate sign of disrespect.. its bad karma too. She is dead to me. If she were to die tomorrow I would be neither happy nor sad. It would make no difference because in my mind and heart she is already dead. He, however, is a much different story.

Anyway, thats my stance.
I have never met anyone who shared the same stance as I do. No wonder I thought you were cool from the start.

As for me, my ex-wife cheated on me hardcore, I don't even want to talk about it. I'll never cheat on anyone, ever. I'll never cause that pain to another person.

However it's happens, and while one maybe the devil reincarnate to your former significant other, everyone sins once in a while. Simply have to learn from your mistakes and move on.
thcbongman Reviewed by thcbongman on . Your stance on cheating ... I have very mixed feelings on wheather or not cheating is okay. I feel like it is ok if there are no feelings involved with it, and that as long as at the end of the day you still go back to the person you are cheating on. I always said that I would never cheat on someone because I thought that it meant you didn't have strong feelings for them, or you were lacking something in the realtionship. But then this weekend I cheated. On friday my boyfriend dropped me off at a train station where I Rating: 5