Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
It definitely does take a toll. For me, not being able to successfully carry a second pregnancy to term and having miscarriage after miscarriage was very rough, and it was rough on our marriage for a time. Such heartbreak.

If I heard of a young teenaged couple who might be facing a pregnancy and could, with luck, be encouraged to do right by that child and give him/her to a qualified family, are you yet to the point, Dro, where I might be able to say "I might know someone who you should consider"? I think I may have a distant lead on somebody I could say that to here in Texas. But you and Mr. Dro need to have some heart-to-heart discussions about that long before I get so presumptious. Can you tell I am just dying to put a baby into your arms??

I'm going to move this thread into parenting, if that's OK with you, sweetie. The other thing I wanted to tell you is that, for many couples, negotiating the adoption process is as emotionally challenging as the monthly disappointments in fertility. Hopes go up and then are dashed in that world, too, as you probably can guess.
Thanks a lot BG Ill have a chat with him, and see what he says. I really appreciate the thought a lot and it is something that is always an option and something that I would want to do even if we have our own children.

Thanks a lot for all of your encouraging words everyone. It can really make me feel like shit when I think its my fault about our inability to conceive. But you guys make me feel a lot better about the situation. I love my cann.com family.