Death Vapor- You have to clarify anymore especially if its a single woman whether or not its the same father. Its sad but its true.

Second your tax money isn't paying for anything for my sister. I grew up on other peoples tax money because my family couldn't afford to feed us. Let me tell you I give thanks to all that delicous government cheese, peanut butter and Medicaid. If it weren't for government assistance I don't know what would have happened growing up.

I'm not sure how you were trying to come across in your post so I'm not going to jump to conclusions. There are a lot of people who abuse government assistance but there are also a lot of people who need it, otherwise they would be homeless and hungry. Some people bring it on there selves and other people run into hard times. No one should ever judge anyone who is taking government assistance unless they know for sure they are abusing it, then they should get what ever is coming to them.

If you ever have a family, who knows I don't know you very well you may have one now. But if you ever have children you would do anything you could to make sure they have a place to sleep and food in there bellies. Unless your a dead beat dad. I don't even have kids right now but I know for a fact I would do anything in my power to make sure they were well taken care of. I would take no shame if I had to go to the local DSS and sign up for food stamps, HUD, etc, to make sure that my family wouldn't go hungry and without medical care, or shelter.

beachguy in thongs- I don't want to jump to conclusions to your post either so Ill keep it on the polite side. Are you implying that my sister is less of a good person because of her situation, and why would you suggest that I would be following her. I don't like it when people place other people in groups or classes. Were all people, we all make mistakes most of us learn, and we take it day by day. Not everyone is blessed with money some people do go through tough times.

All in all I respect and look up to my sister. She is a single mom who works full time it may be at a restaurant but its a job none the less. She takes care of her baby and is a great mom and only 20. She has her own apartment, car, and never complains about how hard it is on her. Which is more than I can say about some friends who have kids and are her age and pawn them off on their parents so they can go out bar hoping and getting drunk. The father is also wonderful. He helps out a lot. Keeping him whenever she needs him to, and making sure he always haves what he needs. Don't judge people its not not anyone's place to do so.

Oh and thanks for the site BG cant look at it now. Worked 9 to 10 tonight. 13 hrs is no joke. Have to be at work at 9 in the morning Ill check it out when I get some down time.