Forgiveness is necessary in developing inner freedom; it helps us attain a great deal of inner peace. Without love and an understanding that we all have faults, forgiveness will remain out of our grasp. Both acceptance and forgiveness are an essential element in following in the footsteps of Christ.

Most view forgiveness as being a benefit only to those we choose to forgive. It certainly benefits others, but when we forgive anotherā??s trespass, we are more so freeing ourselves from our own burdens. Whether the burdens be resentment, bitterness, anger, pride, feelings of contempt, or whatever the force keeping us from realizing inner peace. When we forgive, we release ourselves from these negative forces. All of which prevent us from loving as Christ commanded.

We often times, hold on to these forces as if our lives depended on them. What most are unaware of is that our very lives depend upon our ability, and willingness to break free from them, and forgive graciously. (Matthew 6:14-15) Itā??s unconditional love that enables the spiritual man to forgive without measure. Without forgiveness, we have absolutely no hope of becoming what God wants us to be. (Free)

Why many Christians choose not to forgive, I do not know.

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