do i forgive?

[rastaman79]

so its like this....2 years ago, 3 of my youngest friends (16-17) came and tried stealing the weed i had growing in my yard,the idiots couldn`t even do that properly,most of the premature buds fell back into the bushes. it did more damage more than anything else.at the time i had my suspicions,but you dont really go accusing your mates,so any way a mutual friend told me it was them,i was pissed right off!!! all the kindness and things i used to do for them.so we were at war,me against these 3,i beat two of them and the 3rd went to jail for some other dick head crime,ive still yet to see him.Anyways one of the lads,Higgins we were quite close at one point,he lived with me and my mrs and daughter.he came clubbin for the 1st time with me,done his 1st E with me and i kept him safe,done his 1st trip mith me ect ect.im gonna add THESE WERE ALL DECISIONS HIM SELF.i was just there for him.so the thing is Higgins died last week,he died from sucking butane gas on his own at the age of 20.when i 1st heard ive gotta says that i was initially pleased,i was determined i was gonna stick to my guns he was no longer a friend but a foe?.but now i look on various sites and theres pics of me and him,certain drum and bass tracks we both owned remind me of him.do i forgive?

rastaman79 Reviewed by rastaman79 on 07-06-2007. do i forgive? so its like this....2 years ago, 3 of my youngest friends (16-17) came and tried stealing the weed i had growing in my yard,the idiots couldn`t even do that properly,most of the premature buds fell back into the bushes. it did more damage more than anything else.at the time i had my suspicions,but you dont really go accusing your mates,so any way a mutual friend told me it was them,i was pissed right off!!! all the kindness and things i used to do for them.so we were at war,me against these 3,i Rating: 5

[BlazeBoy]

I figure, that if he was a close friend somethin like that could be forgiven.

That's just me though.

[Lepp]

"Hate is baggage. Life's too short to be pissed off all the time. It's just not worth it. ... 'We are not enemies, but friends. We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory will swell when again touched, as surely they will be, by the better angels of our nature.' "
-American History X

[Storm Crow]

Forgive- it costs you nothing. The kid was an idiot and a thief, but he was your friend. He is gone now. Mourn the good times you guys had and let the bad go. - Granny

[Matt the Funk]

Forgive- it costs you nothing. The kid was an idiot and a thief, but he was your friend. He is gone now. Mourn the good times you guys had and let the bad go. - Granny

This and the post above it took the words out of my mouth.

[skatin_foo15]

Im with all these people. Hate wont get you anywhere. I mean it was just over some plants i mean it is a deal but its just another experience in life. People make mistakes and take for granted what people have done for them in the past.

[Kid Dynamite]

Forgive...an eye for an eye and we'd all be blind.