Question for the ladies on body weight

[GraziLovesMary]

Ill tell you why. Because women sometimes confuse their demeanor as lack of confidence. Be more confident, and even slightly cocky as long as you know how much is too much. I cant say this enough. Confidence confidence confidence. And dont tell me you are plenty confident enough because you are clearly unsure of yourself if you are coming here for reassurance.

Be more confident, my friend and you will succeed.

[spliffstar22]

NICE GUYS FINISH LAST lol

That's what i've learned with women, a lot of them aren't used to nice guys and get really iffy about that.....That's why on some days im the nice guy, and on some days im the bad guy, a nice healthy balance for the ladies lol

[420MissHighTimes420]

lol kind of. i've also just been extremely unlucky with certain situations, and found myself in very undesirable sitatuations several times. i also have the problem of starting to like a guy that has a lot of issues, telling myself that i can fix them or handle them, when in reality, i can't. i'm a softie, and very passive, that's just how i am. and many people tend to take advantage of that.

I too have that problem, I am very nice especially to my man, and they just take full advantage of it. And it seems to happen over and over again. I also try and fix guys but you have to realize that no one will change unless they really want to. I learned that the really hard way.

[thoughtwriter]

spiff, i agree nice guys seem to finish last in the BEGINNING.....but as time goes on they are more successful in life......oh and a little womanly advise.....
Being a good man doesn't mean being a weak push-over....people seem to get these confused, hehe. Maybe that's why a lot of 'good' guys finish last....they are being pushed over..or just being a push-over, lol
You can stand your ground and still be a nice guy.....
but there are a lot of shadey women out there, lol......I myself, am a sweet, loving, stoney....that LOVES my chubby husband, hehe

[blazed_babe]

personality is what matters. my mom and dad were only married for a few years when my mom got extremely ill and gained a lot of weight. when my mom was married, she weighed 125 lbs. i won't say how much she weighs now, but it's substantially more than that. she gained the weight because of her illnesses - she is unable to really exercise because of the exhaustion it causes her - sometimes she gets so exhausted from menial tasks that she will sleep for several days, and she went through hell and back, and she still has the illnesses. my dad is still with my mom because he loves her because of who she is. i really can't say that i remember when my mom was thin, because i really was only a couple of years old. but my dad staying with my mom and helping her through these extremely tough times really helped to show me just how much personality means. but weight really never has been too much of a factor for me - i've dated extremely skinny guys, chubby guys, and overweight guys. looks are always a nice bonus, but what i focus on is personality, and how i am treated in a relationship. so, to me, nice guys are what i look for (and i would just like to say that i have an amazingly wonderful one right now that i'm crazy about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! )

[mseerob]

personality is what matters. my mom and dad were only married for a few years when my mom got extremely ill and gained a lot of weight. when my mom was married, she weighed 125 lbs. i won't say how much she weighs now, but it's substantially more than that. she gained the weight because of her illnesses - she is unable to really exercise because of the exhaustion it causes her - sometimes she gets so exhausted from menial tasks that she will sleep for several days, and she went through hell and back, and she still has the illnesses. my dad is still with my mom because he loves her because of who she is. i really can't say that i remember when my mom was thin, because i really was only a couple of years old. but my dad staying with my mom and helping her through these extremely tough times really helped to show me just how much personality means. but weight really never has been too much of a factor for me - i've dated extremely skinny guys, chubby guys, and overweight guys. looks are always a nice bonus, but what i focus on is personality, and how i am treated in a relationship. so, to me, nice guys are what i look for (and i would just like to say that i have an amazingly wonderful one right now that i'm crazy about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! )

Thats awesome

I truly hope I find a girl. I kinda stopped looking for girls at clubs cause there bitches. I tried going on the yahoo personals, all I need is a great photo to get me going.

I dont have a camera so I was thinking of going to a portrait studio to get some pictures done. As anyone ever got any pictures done at wal mart before?