well ive my share of all this and its not fun. Neither usin a condom or havn anxiety probs, i used to be like that but i found the girl that i am meant to be with and i have no problems wut so ever, im not at all shy about myself around here. The smart way is to wear a condom, if u dont u better fukin be responsible enough to take care of that kid, if not ill kik ur fukin ass.lol theres to many peice of shit dads in this world today. People wanna pull that dick out and use it but not take care of what they created. Its bullshit that goes on in this world today. And Pregnancy scares are crazy, i found i just quit worryn bout it. makes time go faster and easier.