You're not a loser. You're just having performance anxiety. Applying a condom has a way of bringing that on.

Maybe try and proceed to manual stimulation of both you and her before you try intercourse again or stop to put a condom on. Applying a condom breaks the spontaneity, it's true. You're too young for Viagra.

Also if you're young and this is your first time and you're worried about being walked in on, try and find someplace private where you're going to have plenty of time and no interruptions. That won't be easy, but if you can relax and not have to worry about rushing and have plenty of time for foreplay, you'll have a more stable erection.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . condom worries im a virgin to start out with. Im 16, and have a gf, we started to have sex today and i put on the condom and everything went away, EVERYTHING, I was rdy to go untill I pulled out the condom and put it on. lol im kinda glad it happend now cuz my mom came home 10 mins later.. we were just getting dressed as she walked threw the door so that went well. but It worries the shit out of me, the other day I was fingering her and she orgasmed, we started to have sex then and i put the condom on and Rating: 5