why are you people putting so much pressure on yourself to finding someone to spend the rest of your life with? Just have fun and date as many people as you can and worry about that sh*t when ur older. Soul mates don't exist, not in a country where 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce, I'm sure each and every one of those people thought they found "the one" as well. Just have fun, don't put so much pressure on yourself and the person you are hooking up with