Yeah, I think I'd rather not hear it unless it's a serious problem so I could either fix it or, like bong man, bash their face in. And you're right, it just makes you feel bad about yourself and your friends. It would be nice to know who talks the most $h!t so I could leave them alone. But for the most part I think it's better to not know in most people's case. Humans just might wind up turning into an antisocial species.