my dad finally quit smoking after years of my bitching. he bought some nicorette and he says it actually works really well. its been a couple weeks and he said the gum really does kill the craving.
i would suggest buying the gum and going to her with the idea of both of you quitting together. do it right away because if you don't its only ever gonna be an idea.
the hardest thing is just starting, so dont waste anymore time and do it RIGHT NOW. not in a week or when this packs out or whatever, just get that shit over with.
what i would try doing at least, good luck.