I guess I agree with Nation_1ne. Sounds like the bitch is too crazy to be worth sticking around anyway. If he works this problem out, she's just going to threaten your cousin again with something else later on. I hate for your cousin to lose his kid, but it's better than his life. It's also better than staying in a relationship that's obviously going to make him, his girl and his kid all miserable. So yeah. I recommend getting the hell out. If he wants custody of the kid, go to court and ask the judge about protective custody or relocation programs or whatnot. If he just wants to be safe, then bail. Don't tell anybody but family where he's going. Let the bitch take care of the kid herself. Maybe he could even come back after a while and after she's seen that single parenting ain't easy. Not very many guys want to be with a girl who already has a kid so she probably won't find anybody to replace your cousin. Maybe that'll teach her. If not, she's a dumb bitch. She sounds like a dumb bitch anyway and I think your cousin should stay away from her for several reasons. But I've never been in anything close to this so I dunno. Hope at least part of this helps.