What trait do you have that helps you get what you want in life

[LIP]

Well, theres too sides of me.

I can be nice and funny.

But i can also get very angry, and i've got a bit of a temper on me. I'm a big bloke too, so people generally dont want to cause a fuss with me [i just think they dont want me to kick off] but i end up getting almost everything i want.

I prefer being nice though, i dont like my temper. The only thing it's good for is if i get jumped - coz i can defend myself and win fairly easily.

[CannabisHappiness]

We all have a trait or characteristic that we use to help us get what we want..

I, for an example use humor and kindness.
I have read that there are 3 distinct moments in your life before the age of 21 that develop the major chacteristics, that that mold who you are forever..

1.humor
2.kindness
3.sex appeal.
:thumbsup:

[LIP]

Well, theres too sides of me.

I can be nice and funny.

But i can also get very angry, and i've got a bit of a temper on me. I'm a big bloke too, so people generally dont want to cause a fuss with me [i just think they dont want me to kick off] but i end up getting almost everything i want.

I prefer being nice though, i dont like my temper. The only thing it's good for is if i get jumped - coz i can defend myself and win fairly easily.

I cant leave that up there, it looks stupid. It should be TWO, not too. I'm an idiot. I guess i should proof read my posts before posting.

[JohnGalt]

My intelligence and my smooth talking. I actually like people in general, but damn can I be a manipulative bastard if I have to.

[stinkyattic]

Stubborn and smart.

Not afraid of manual labor or long hours, although I have a cushy salaried job.
I'll work 3 jobs- done it recently too- I'd go back and wash dishes at a restaurant tonight if I needed some cash, I don't give a shit.

And I can defray bad situations with my wit. Kinda helps!

[geonagual]

Stubborn and smart.

Not afraid of manual labor or long hours, although I have a cushy salaried job.
I'll work 3 jobs- done it recently too- I'd go back and wash dishes at a restaurant tonight if I needed some cash, I don't give a shit.

And I can defray bad situations with my wit. Kinda helps!

I am totally the same way...work is work..I have done ALL kinds of crazy shit to make money..


also the last statement..I can get out of more shit then anyone I know by survival thinking

One of the traits you gain in life is when you are finally out on your own. No mommy and daddy there to bail you out. You develop this characteristic when you are finally put into a sink or swim situation..will you survive?
and this is what you will do.

[stinkyattic]

Yeah I was trying to think of a better term than stubborn... scrappy doesn't quite fit either... it's akin to that old Yankee 'make the farm grow in this rocky soil with only a shovel and a horse' sort of thing.
Give me the wrong tools, or not enough for the job, I'll figure out how to use them to get it done, dammit.

[cannabis=freedom]

Kindness and being laid-back....but also having a cutting-edge satiricle side that lets me mock the shit out of any bullshit I come across.

[geonagual]

That would be ingenuity..

like Mcgiver..cant remember how to spell that dudes name. LOL.

I am the same way in that aspect..I will figure out a fucking way or I am not sleeping till I do.

[BizzleLuvin]

i am really really great at talking with people. great at making small talk and pretending that i am engaged in the converstaion and that i really care. i am also good at being very cordial and knowing just how people would like me to act in a conversation.

this helps when i am speaking with parents and teachers because i charm them right away. its about brown nosing subversively, and im great at that.

i read a book about my personality type and it kept stresssing how i would make an excellent salesperson or a politician for my ability to coerce people by word