I would say being able to stay friends with people is my trait.

I'm not the most popular of people, but I have kept most of my friends despite the cliques that they fall into. I have been through points where I have been talking with friends, then whenever a person from outside of their clique but is still my friend comes to talk to me, they just act like he is invisible. I find this really annoying because there is no reason they don't like them (Which I have asked before), yet they still push this cool facade of not caring about them. There is one extreme example of this which is still vivid in my mind, which is probably one of those three distinct moments you were talking about. These variations in opinions between cliques has really helped me establish what my main morals in life are.