Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Spliffstar, your response not only missed the mark
by a mile.

Grey. Love's a strong thing. But in my opinion, friendship's stronger. Good friends are as rare as gold. And like spliffstar failed at pointing out, women come and go. You might think this girl is the one you will marry. And If that's the case, you'll eventually be with her. I'm just putting myself in your shoes.

I would tell your very good friend the situation. You mentioned that he really doesn't take the relationship serious. I would be respectful but foward. And I'd also be understanding. Yes, the cards would be on the table but any other alternative would cut your friend out and that, my friend, is something you might regret if this girl turns out to be "a mistake"