Does he have any idea of this attraction between you and his girl?
Actually I suspect he does. At least he knows she's attracted to me, I haven't indicated anything in front of him.


Kinda start hinting around about his girl being cool and stuff. Say stuff like you need to find somebody like her. When he brings up the issue of hooking up with another girl, kinda jokingly tell him to go for another girl and let you have his current girl. See how he responds and gradually get more serious about it. There's tons of advice out ther for this situation.
That's actually some damn good advice bro, much appreciated. It'll be hard to figure out exactly how to do that, but I think I could figure something out.


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Those two lines stood out to me. Would you be satisfied with being second best, seeing that your best friend said it was cool?
Hmmmm, I wouldn't say I'm "second best" in her eyes, she just met him a while before me and fell totally in love with him. Now he doesn't seem to give two shits about her, while I want to do nothing but give her hapiness.


How would he react?
Good question, it's hard to say. I think he'd be cool with me dating her after they broke up, but it's like he's going to string her along forever, I suspect he's been doing so for months the way he's been talking since last January.

Bros before hoes hon, even if the love is true..
You're absolutely right, that's why I won't betray him and screw around with her (well at least attempt to). I love the guy like a brother, we're pretty much family, but even family can really piss you off at times.

I think if you really care about her, you'll figure out a way to get your best friend to end the relationship with her..so she stops being hurt and then play it by ear from there. I wouldn't break up the two with the intention of dating her though. I'll hopefully think of something more helpful tomorrow morning..as it's almost 3 a.m and I'm kinda buzzed. <3
Yeah I agree, I've never tried to break them up, especially not for my own gain. I'd feel like such a bastard. But on the flip side, I feel like a bastard knowing he's screwing her around and not saying anything. The way he talks, I'm about 95% sure he'd sleep with another girl if the opportunity came along.