When my best friend went into a relationship with this girl, her and I hit it off rigth away. It's usually very hard for me to connect with people, yet I connected perfectly with her in every possible way, always feeling comfortable around her. Over the past couple years we became very good friends, and a mutual attraction to each other grew. We never did anything because neither of us would betray my friend/her bf, but the attraction is still there.

In the last few months I kept arguing with myself, trying to talk myself out of it, but I couldn't deny it any longer, I'm completely in love with her. She's perfect in every way for me and I just want to be with her so bad. I don't know how strong her feelings are about me, but she's at least said and indicated an attraction to me several times. She even said once if my friend ever left her I'd be next in line.

Now my friend has lost interest in her, yet seems to be stringing her along. He says he's not attracted to her anymore, doesn't want to have sex with her and only does it to satisfy her needs, and I'm starting to think he doesn't even respect her anymore. He constantly talks about girls from his past he wants to hook up with, and always goes on about this british medical student he wants to marry one day. He doesn't seem to respect or care for her at all, and it tears me up because I care for her more than anything in the world. I would appreciate her and treat her SO much better than him, but he won't just end the relationship, and she won't because she's still very much in love with him.

I just don't know what to do. Part of me wants to tell her all the disloyal things he's been saying, and tell her I would treat her so much better, but then I'm betraying my best friend. He truly has been my closest friend for 12 years, I could never do anything to betray him. But staying silent is just killing me, knowing that he doesn't care at all about her but won't leave her or tell her the truth. What should I do? What can I do? I've never felt so confused and torn.
Gandalf_The_Grey Reviewed by Gandalf_The_Grey on . I seriously need some advice When my best friend went into a relationship with this girl, her and I hit it off rigth away. It's usually very hard for me to connect with people, yet I connected perfectly with her in every possible way, always feeling comfortable around her. Over the past couple years we became very good friends, and a mutual attraction to each other grew. We never did anything because neither of us would betray my friend/her bf, but the attraction is still there. In the last few months I kept arguing Rating: 5