Like yourself well enough to let this guy go far, far away and make someone else's life miserable. When you're trying to change yourself to accommodate and him and be perfect for him, you're losing your own identity. That's not a good thing. And it's not healthy.

This guy's not good for you. He's toxic, in fact. And you need to take a break from dating till you can find someone who treats you well and won't take advantage of you or interact with you in ways that leave you feeling miserable. Love is supposed to feel good and be mutually supportive. Take some time to get your head right and then you'll be in shape to find someone who treats you like you deserve to be treated.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . How do you know when it's time to end it? I'm sooo confused about my relationship, probably because I have never had a good one, ever. The guy I'm with now has done some fucked up shit to me in the past. He got me pregnant and things went sour, I had an abortion and he stopped talking to me. He said sorry and I really know he was. So 6 months later we are haning out agian and things got back to the way they used to be. I was sooo happy that I was back with him (I think because all I ever wanted was to make a relationship work out) and Rating: 5