I had a female friend go through the same exact thing when I was your age. I too was the friend that she needed guidance from and I could tell she was very scared and worried. I stated the options she had just like stinky recommended, while still trying to be a good friend and support her. However, my fiend from the start ruled out the option of an abortion so I had little more to offer.

In the case of your friend, it seems like she is scared and trying to make the right decision yet doesn't want an abortion. I am not one to make any judgments about someone I don't even know, but it seems like your friend is leaning towards saving her future (and the other guy's future, remember he counts too) by not wanting to carry till term. In my eyes it doesn't make much sense to hope for a "natural" abortion when an abortion is obtainable. To me it is the same thing but I'm not going to get too deep into this.
deftdrummer Reviewed by deftdrummer on . pregnant friend My friend is pregnant and I have no idea what to tell her to make her feel better. This couldnt come at a worse time for her, and she cant go to her family for help. He boyfriend took the news ok but he's only 19 (she'll be 21 this year), and he was supposed to start college this fall. I know how scared she must be, and I feel like I'm a bad friend because I dont know what to tell her. She's only told me and her boyfriend so far. Rating: 5