Sorry for your troubles man. If this is eating you up so much, then you need to get it off your chest.

Write her a letter telling her exactly how you feel. If you take the time and put enough effort into it, you can put what you want to say in words that she can clearly read. Nothing will be lost in the translation.

If you need to say that you're sorry for something, then man up. Just tell her you're sorry. Spill your guts, tell her exactly how you feel and how you just want it to end. Make it clear that you lie with your wife and kid, make it absolutely fucking clear so there's no misconceptions at all. Most importantly, get your point across to her. Once you know she accepts it and is completely over it, I think then you can let go.

My $0.02
AR15 Reviewed by AR15 on . Screw ups (sorry mods, no other term for it that i know) ever fuck up like REALLY horribly in your life... pertaining to relationships and even tho it's been years upon years you can't seem to let it go....? even tho both of you have famalies now, you just can't let it go... you have no real desire to go back with them or anything... you just feel things are 'unresolved' (best word i can think of) even tho everything has been thoroughly explained? i dunno what to do anymore -.- i'ts really starting to get to me... i thought with time after i Rating: 5