Quote Originally Posted by Darth Vapor
slipknotpsycho said...... "how would your wife feel" or simliar shit really won't work... i KNOW how they'd feel (wife or son when he got older if i followed stupid decisoins) and that's why i'm trying to find a healthy way to deal with this shit.. without breaking up mine or her family... "

Yes, it does work. It's called puting someone elses happiness before your own. It's called love. It's called being a grown up.

By the way, I'm just spit balling here, but I doubt asking the advice of Cannabis.com visitors at 3:00 a.m. really qualifies as a "healthy way to deal with this shit." YOU'RE creating this shit. YOU! JUST YOU!!! Not your wife. Not your ex. Not your son. Not your ex's child. Not your ex's new love. Not your mommy or daddy, 'cuz they didn't hug you enough. Not your mommy or daddy, 'cuz they hugged you too much. Go punch a pillow, and realize you're not that important, other than the fact that, yes, you could really screw up a good thing for everyone.

By the way, no matter how much you try to kid yourself, about how understanding and empathetic your wife is to your 'situation'... she thinks you're a complete asshole for involving her in your little guilt trip, about a stupid ex-girlfriend.
i'd really appreciate it if you'd get off my dick.

either way.... i got the answers i was looking for last night