I think a girl will only approach a guy when she wants to. When she is very attracted to him, and he is just not makin his move. Other wise they will sit right here and wait.. Why do woman need to hit on you? they have tons of other guys hitting on them. Think about it... Just make sure to smile and eye contact, it does make a difference. Their are so many people out in the world, jsut because one guy seems so hot, doesn't mean we are going to run up to them. Id say the best thing to do is become friends, find out who she is what she likes. From their if you are rejected move on to the next girl. You will never run out. And plus you just might make a friend, and all girls have more girlfriends...

edit: Oh and then you have your inside girl to do all the talking for you. Send the friend to investigate(meaning they ask if they like you, not mentioning anything about your feelings just to get theirs) before you make your entrance with other ladies... easy shit dude.. just have to find away around everything.. and their is a way..

Im pretty sure this works, i have had tons of friends and i have been the inside girl, connecting all my best friends i have today.:thumbsup:

Good Luck on finding someone true.